Can login, but can't authorize buddies

Hi,

I’m strying to setup opefire for the first time. (MAX OSX server 10.6.8)

I have an openfire server running behind a NAT (ie - the server has an internal IP).

I’ve forwarded ports 5222-5269 to the server.

I have no problem logging in from outside the network (using Spark).

But when I add budddies - the authorization message never gets sent to Spark.

What could be wrong? Is this a STUN issue?

It doesnt’ even work inside the network using internal IPs.