well, make me an example without the wildfire fix.
wildfire running on domain: wildfire.xmpp.com, ports 80, 443, 5222, 5223 (support for idiotic firewalls that only use “trusted outgoing connections”, note that we can not use a website running on wildfire.xmpp.com to host the crossdomain file)
website + swf running on domain www.example.com.
first thing that happens is a http request to wildfire.xmpp.com port 80 that gets blackholed, and the only way to do it is:
fix wildfire to support cross-domain.xml