ok, i’'ve undesrtand why not use the embebed db.
i’‘ll use mysql. i just installed a new jive messenger, and in the configuration for mysql there is an question about the minimum and maximum number for the pool (??? what is that?, sorry about my english, i’'m using the portuguese translation), it have between 5 and 15. wich number should i put?
to complete my answer, this server will run about 900 users simultaneously (about 4000 users registered) every day.
if you could help me even more, wich machine do i put this server?
today it is running on a desktop (PIII 1.1, 256 RAM), with jabberd 1.4.2 and mysql
thanks for all the help,