I just caught an increasing number in Queued NIO events “on tape”. I noticed that there again was a lag, but this time also when sending messages to another server ? receiving messages was just fine.
Log sample, lines with same ‘Queued NIO events’ count removed
1193246244321,5,15,6,0,17,0,0,788074,15,24475,75182,0,-15566
1193246249321,5,15,6,0,17,1,0,788076,15,24476,75184,1,-15568
1193246274321,5,15,6,0,17,1,0,788081,15,24476,75184,3,-15568
1193246279321,5,15,6,0,17,1,0,788082,15,24476,75184,4,-15568
1193246314321,5,15,6,0,17,1,0,788091,15,24477,75187,5,-15571
1193246319321,5,15,6,0,17,1,0,788092,15,24477,75187,5,-15571
1193246329321,5,15,6,0,17,1,0,788093,15,24477,75187,6,-15571
1193246334321,5,15,6,0,17,1,0,788095,15,24477,75188,7,-15572
1193246339321,5,15,6,0,17,1,0,788095,15,24477,75188,8,-15572
1193246344321,5,15,6,0,17,1,0,788095,15,24477,75188,9,-15572
1193246384321,5,15,6,0,17,1,0,788102,15,24477,75188,10,-15572
1193246439320,5,15,6,0,17,1,0,788112,15,24477,75189,11,-15573
1193246444320,5,15,6,0,17,1,0,788113,15,24477,75191,12,-15575
1193246449320,5,15,6,0,17,1,0,788113,15,24477,75192,13,-15576
1193246459324,5,15,6,0,17,1,0,788116,15,24477,75193,14,-15577
1193246464320,5,15,6,0,17,1,0,788116,15,24478,75193,16,-15577
1193246489320,5,15,6,0,17,1,0,788119,15,24478,75193,17,-15577
1193246509320,5,15,6,0,17,1,0,788124,15,24478,75194,18,-15578
1193246519320,5,15,6,0,17,1,0,788126,15,24478,75196,19,-15580
1193246549320,5,15,6,0,17,1,0,788129,15,24478,75196,20,-15580
1193246604320,5,15,6,0,17,1,0,788140,15,24478,75198,21,-15582
1193246659320,5,15,6,0,17,1,0,788150,15,24478,75198,22,-15582
1193246664320,5,15,6,0,17,1,0,788151,15,24479,75201,21,-15585
1193246669319,5,15,6,0,17,1,0,788152,15,24479,75201,22,-15585
1193246684327,5,15,6,0,17,1,0,788158,15,24480,75205,21,-15589
1193246704319,5,15,6,0,17,1,0,788162,15,24486,75208,2,-15592
1193246709323,5,15,6,0,17,1,0,788163,15,24486,75209,4,-15593
1193246714323,5,15,6,0,17,1,0,788165,15,24486,75209,4,-15593
1193246719323,5,15,6,0,17,0,0,788170,14,24486,75213,5,-15597
1193246724323,5,15,6,0,17,0,0,788171,14,24486,75214,0,-15598
Not sure if that is helpful in any way, but maybe some evidence is better than none