Openfire 3.7.0_1,1 on Freebsd 8.2 x86 - installed from the ports.
ipfw (firewall) allows all connections on port 5269.
all dns records are good .
server to server service is enabled, Allowed to Connect - anyone
security settings - optional (and i’ve tried with custom - without checkbox)
domain for example - xxx1.com
but it is another big public xmpp server - yyy2.com
authorization not working
online-status not working
messages are delivered to email@example.com from firstname.lastname@example.org !!!BUT not delivered from email@example.com to firstname.lastname@example.org - like to black hole - but i see a lot of connections on 5269 in tcpdump and all looks like it should be
what is wrong?
PS. sorry for my bad english