Setup is as follows
cable modem - sends all data to router (True ip connect or something like that in the modem)
router port forwards to internal ip address of openfire server (for spark):
from wan1 to internal ip address
If a user on the lan tries to connect it works.
If a user off the lan tries to connect if fails.
what am I missing.
tested with firewall off so I know its not being blocked by firewall.