User adding and presence subscription

Let’s say I have a A user and a B user.

I have 2 Jabber clients, A and B are online and don’t know each other.

If I had B to A contact list, I can see that B is online, even if he has not accepted yet! Is there a way to change this behavior in the server side with openfire : I don’t want A to know if B is online as long as B hasn’t denied/accepted the invitation!

Hey Matthias,

Could you open the XML console in userA and userB and copy the iq:roster packets? I would like to check what is in the users’ rosters. Most of the XMPP clients allow you to open an XML console…check the manual of your client to see how to open it.

Regards,

– Gato