Profile settings I’ve got Default, LDAP or Clearspace.
So, i assume you have selected Embedded Database on the Database Settings page?
Then select Default on the Profile Settings page.
On the Admin Account page put ‘admin’ in the first field. You can leave default admin email address or put anything you want (you won’t use it anyway), then enter your new password two times and press Continue.
DO NOT push Login to the admin console button on the last screen. It won’t work. Just close this page and restart Openfire. Then load http://localhost:9090 and login with username admin and your password.
Then… there will be a lot more stuff, which i think is pretty obvious for an IT guy. And it seems you are not. And it could be hard to find someone to take you through every step. I dont have so much time either