Ok when I run the command ps auxw | grep openfire this is what comes back
damon 23806 0.0 2.2 667036 45628 ? Sl 11:45 0:05 /usr/bin/java - server -Dinstall4j.jvmDir=/usr -Dexe4j.moduleName=/etc/init.d/openfire/bin/openf ire -classpath /etc/init.d/openfire/.install4j/i4jruntime.jar:/etc/init.d/openfi re/lib/activation.jar:/etc/init.d/openfire/lib/bouncycastle.jar:/etc/init.d/ope n fire/lib/commons-el.jar:/etc/init.d/openfire/lib/hsqldb.jar:/etc/init.d/openfir e /lib/jasper-compiler.jar:/etc/init.d/openfire/lib/jasper-runtime.jar:/etc/init. d /openfire/lib/jdic.jar:/etc/init.d/openfire/lib/jtds.jar:/etc/init.d/openfire/l i b/mail.jar:/etc/init.d/openfire/lib/mysql.jar:/etc/init.d/openfire/lib/openfire . jar:/etc/init.d/openfire/lib/postgres.jar:/etc/init.d/openfire/lib/servlet.jar: / etc/init.d/openfire/lib/startup.jar com.install4j.runtime.Launcher start org.jiv esoftware.openfire.starter.ServerStarter false false /etc/init.d/openfire/bin/… /logs/stderror.log /etc/init.d/openfire/bin/…/logs/stdoutt.log true true false true true 0 0 20 20 Arial 0,0,0 8 500 version 3.3.2 20 40 Arial 0,0,0 8 500 -1 -DopenfireHome=/etc/init.d/openfire -Dopenfire.lib.dir=/etc/init.d/openfire/lib
damon 29156 0.0 0.0 2884 764 pts/0 R+ 17:11 0:00 grep openfire
when I run the lsof | grep java as root this is what comes back
java 23806 damon cwd DIR 8,1 4096 17482970 /var/www/openfire/bin
java 23806 damon rtd DIR 8,1 4096 2 /
java 23806 damon txt REG 8,1 47116 12667604 /usr/lib/jvm/java-6-sun-1.6.0.00/jre/bin/java
java 23806 damon mem REG 8,1 7284921 12699673 /usr/lib/jvm/java-6-sun-1.6.0.00/jre/lib/i386/server/libjvm.so
java 23806 damon mem REG 0,0 0 (stat: No such file or directory)
java 23806 damon mem REG 8,1 37081 12699691 /usr/lib/jvm/java-6-sun-1.6.0.00/jre/lib/i386/libnio.so
java 23806 damon mem REG 8,1 95830 12699690 /usr/lib/jvm/java-6-sun-1.6.0.00/jre/lib/i386/libnet.so
java 23806 damon mem REG 8,1 180973 17483177 /var/www/openfire/plugins/admin/webapp/WEB-INF/lib/dwr.jar
java 23806 damon mem REG 8,1 642469 17483013 /var/www/openfire/plugins/admin/webapp/WEB-INF/lib/admin-jsp.jar
java 23806 damon mem REG 8,1 170257 12700433 /usr/lib/jvm/java-6-sun-1.6.0.00/jre/lib/ext/sunjce_provider.jar
java 23806 damon mem REG 8,1 616317 12700432 /usr/lib/jvm/java-6-sun-1.6.0.00/jre/lib/jsse.jar
java 23806 damon mem REG 8,1 1101621 12699734 /usr/lib/jvm/java-6-sun-1.6.0.00/jre/lib/resources.jar
java 23806 damon mem REG 8,1 451545 17483021 /var/www/openfire/lib/mysql.jar
java 23806 damon mem REG 8,1 111388 17483023 /var/www/openfire/lib/commons-el.jar
java 23806 damon mem REG 8,1 632354 17483022 /var/www/openfire/lib/hsqldb.jar
java 23806 damon mem REG 8,1 137214 17483015 /var/www/openfire/lib/servlet.jar
java 23806 damon mem REG 8,1 4626650 17483014 /var/www/openfire/lib/openfire.jar
java 23806 damon mem REG 8,1 54829 17483011 /var/www/openfire/lib/activation.jar
java 23806 damon mem REG 8,1 1269446 17483012 /var/www/openfire/lib/bouncycastle.jar
java 23806 damon mem REG 8,1 397448 17483016 /var/www/openfire/lib/postgres.jar
java 23806 damon mem REG 8,1 282625 17482965 /var/www/openfire/lib/jtds.jar
java 23806 damon mem REG 8,1 404880 17483020 /var/www/openfire/lib/jasper-compiler.jar
java 23806 damon mem REG 8,1 77034 17483018 /var/www/openfire/lib/jasper-runtime.jar
java 23806 damon mem REG 8,1 356519 17483019 /var/www/openfire/lib/mail.jar
java 23806 damon mem REG 8,1 74639 17483017 /var/www/openfire/lib/jdic.jar
java 23806 damon mem REG 8,1 70095 17483024 /var/www/openfire/lib/startup.jar
java 23806 damon mem REG 8,1 721603 17482967 /var/www/openfire/.install4j/i4jruntime.jar
java 23806 damon mem REG 8,1 25460 12208142 /usr/lib/gconv/gconv-modules.cache
java 23806 damon mem REG 8,1 238336 12241232 /usr/lib/locale/en_US.utf8/LC_CTYPE
java 23806 damon mem REG 8,1 48111152 12699895 /usr/lib/jvm/java-6-sun-1.6.0.00/jre/lib/rt.jar
java 23806 damon mem REG 8,1 76152 12699686 /usr/lib/jvm/java-6-sun-1.6.0.00/jre/lib/i386/libzip.so
java 23806 damon mem REG 8,1 188962 12699683 /usr/lib/jvm/java-6-sun-1.6.0.00/jre/lib/i386/libjava.so
java 23806 damon mem REG 8,1 56701 12699682 /usr/lib/jvm/java-6-sun-1.6.0.00/jre/lib/i386/libverify.so
java 23806 damon mem REG 8,1 38416 3850402 /lib/tls/i686/cmov/libnss_files-2.5.so
java 23806 damon mem REG 8,1 34352 3850405 /lib/tls/i686/cmov/libnss_nis-2.5.so
java 23806 damon mem REG 8,1 30436 3850400 /lib/tls/i686/cmov/libnss_compat-2.5.so
java 23806 damon mem REG 8,1 79596 3850399 /lib/tls/i686/cmov/libnsl-2.5.so
java 23806 damon mem REG 8,1 32768 16007213 /tmp/hsperfdata_damon/23806
java 23806 damon mem REG 8,1 30624 3850413 /lib/tls/i686/cmov/librt-2.5.so
java 23806 damon mem REG 8,1 153424 3850397 /lib/tls/i686/cmov/libm-2.5.so
java 23806 damon mem REG 8,1 1307104 3850392 /lib/tls/i686/cmov/libc-2.5.so
java 23806 damon mem REG 8,1 9684 3850396 /lib/tls/i686/cmov/libdl-2.5.so
java 23806 damon mem REG 8,1 38270 12699685 /usr/lib/jvm/java-6-sun-1.6.0.00/jre/lib/i386/jli/libjli.so
java 23806 damon mem REG 8,1 112362 3850410 /lib/tls/i686/cmov/libpthread-2.5.so
java 23806 damon mem REG 8,1 38694 12699671 /usr/lib/jvm/java-6-sun-1.6.0.00/jre/lib/i386/native_threads/libhpi.so
java 23806 damon mem REG 8,1 109268 3850255 /lib/ld-2.5.so
java 23806 damon 0r CHR 1,3 7907 /dev/null
java 23806 damon 1w REG 8,1 192 17483330 /var/www/openfire/bin/nohup.out
java 23806 damon 2w REG 8,1 192 17483330 /var/www/openfire/bin/nohup.out
java 23806 damon 3r REG 8,1 48111152 12699895 /usr/lib/jvm/java-6-sun-1.6.0.00/jre/lib/rt.jar
java 23806 damon 4r REG 8,1 721603 17482967 /var/www/openfire/.install4j/i4jruntime.jar
java 23806 damon 5r CHR 1,8 3745 /dev/random
java 23806 damon 6r CHR 1,9 3749 /dev/urandom
java 23806 damon 7r REG 8,1 54829 17483011 /var/www/openfire/lib/activation.jar
java 23806 damon 8r REG 8,1 1269446 17483012 /var/www/openfire/lib/bouncycastle.jar
java 23806 damon 9r REG 8,1 111388 17483023 /var/www/openfire/lib/commons-el.jar
java 23806 damon 10r REG 8,1 632354 17483022 /var/www/openfire/lib/hsqldb.jar
java 23806 damon 11r REG 8,1 404880 17483020 /var/www/openfire/lib/jasper-compiler.jar
java 23806 damon 12r REG 8,1 77034 17483018 /var/www/openfire/lib/jasper-runtime.jar
java 23806 damon 13r REG 8,1 74639 17483017 /var/www/openfire/lib/jdic.jar
java 23806 damon 14r REG 8,1 282625 17482965 /var/www/openfire/lib/jtds.jar
java 23806 damon 15r REG 8,1 356519 17483019 /var/www/openfire/lib/mail.jar
java 23806 damon 16r REG 8,1 451545 17483021 /var/www/openfire/lib/mysql.jar
java 23806 damon 17r REG 8,1 4626650 17483014 /var/www/openfire/lib/openfire.jar
java 23806 damon 18r REG 8,1 397448 17483016 /var/www/openfire/lib/postgres.jar
java 23806 damon 19r REG 8,1 137214 17483015 /var/www/openfire/lib/servlet.jar
java 23806 damon 20r REG 8,1 70095 17483024 /var/www/openfire/lib/startup.jar
java 23806 damon 21w REG 8,1 0 17483332 /var/www/openfire/logs/debug.log
java 23806 damon 22r REG 8,1 70095 17483024 /var/www/openfire/lib/startup.jar
java 23806 damon 23r REG 8,1 74639 17483017 /var/www/openfire/lib/jdic.jar
java 23806 damon 24r REG 8,1 356519 17483019 /var/www/openfire/lib/mail.jar
java 23806 damon 25r REG 8,1 77034 17483018 /var/www/openfire/lib/jasper-runtime.jar
java 23806 damon 26r REG 8,1 404880 17483020 /var/www/openfire/lib/jasper-compiler.jar
java 23806 damon 27r REG 8,1 282625 17482965 /var/www/openfire/lib/jtds.jar
java 23806 damon 28r REG 8,1 397448 17483016 /var/www/openfire/lib/postgres.jar
java 23806 damon 29r REG 8,1 1269446 17483012 /var/www/openfire/lib/bouncycastle.jar
java 23806 damon 30r REG 8,1 54829 17483011 /var/www/openfire/lib/activation.jar
java 23806 damon 31r REG 8,1 4626650 17483014 /var/www/openfire/lib/openfire.jar
java 23806 damon 32r REG 8,1 137214 17483015 /var/www/openfire/lib/servlet.jar
java 23806 damon 33r REG 8,1 632354 17483022 /var/www/openfire/lib/hsqldb.jar
java 23806 damon 34r REG 8,1 111388 17483023 /var/www/openfire/lib/commons-el.jar
java 23806 damon 35r REG 8,1 451545 17483021 /var/www/openfire/lib/mysql.jar
java 23806 damon 36r REG 8,1 1101621 12699734 /usr/lib/jvm/java-6-sun-1.6.0.00/jre/lib/resources.jar
java 23806 damon 37w REG 8,1 260 17483333 /var/www/openfire/logs/info.log
java 23806 damon 38w REG 8,1 0 17483334 /var/www/openfire/logs/warn.log
java 23806 damon 39w REG 8,1 0 17483335 /var/www/openfire/logs/error.log
java 23806 damon 40w REG 8,1 90 17483331 /var/www/openfire/logs/stdoutt.log
java 23806 damon 41r REG 8,1 616317 12700432 /usr/lib/jvm/java-6-sun-1.6.0.00/jre/lib/jsse.jar
java 23806 damon 42r REG 8,1 170257 12700433 /usr/lib/jvm/java-6-sun-1.6.0.00/jre/lib/ext/sunjce_provider.jar
java 23806 damon 43r FIFO 0,6 29246 pipe
java 23806 damon 44w FIFO 0,6 29246 pipe
java 23806 damon 45r REG 8,1 642469 17483013 /var/www/openfire/plugins/admin/webapp/WEB-INF/lib/admin-jsp.jar
java 23806 damon 46r REG 8,1 180973 17483177 /var/www/openfire/plugins/admin/webapp/WEB-INF/lib/dwr.jar
java 23806 damon 47r CHR 1,8 3745 /dev/random
java 23806 damon 48r 0000 0,10 0 29247 eventpoll
java 23806 damon 49u IPv6 29248 TCP *:9090 (LISTEN)
java 23806 damon 51u sock 0,5 29250 can’t identify protocol
java 23806 damon 52u unix 0xf60e7680 31619 socket
does this tell you anything?